Throwing a party to get your ex back
Almost everyone knows the feeling – of a lost love that could have gone the distance. For those of us who have felt this and wished we could have a second chance – there is hope. Many relationships have resulted from genuine attempts on the part of one or both of the partners wishing for another chance – a chance to get it right this time – to get ex back. This is much more common than many people realize. Some believe that it’s just not possible or something that can’t be done. Others, especially those who were truly in love, want and hope that things could have been different or wish there was a way to rekindle that past relationship and get ex back. Most dating and relationship experts agree that any relationship that ended on casual flaws – not assault or severe mental cruelty – can be rekindled, if the parties want to make it happen.
Well, let’s assume that your relationship falls into the ‘fixable’ category and that you genuinely want to get your ex back. So how does one go about it? Many relationship experts suggest a gradual process of establishing contact – even if just to say hello – followed by genuine shows of interest that are benign but reflect genuine interest. These are typically followed by a relatively harmless request for a meeting over coffee or lunch. The final step in this process is typically a second meeting – a date – to see if there’s any real chance.
What this article is all about is fast forwarding that traditional approach into one fell swoop and into the winner’s circle with a ‘my hero’ approach. To do this, you’ll need some reason or excuse to use. That means you need an event or special occasion to use as the springboard for your newly found interest in rekindling the past relationship. The best way to do this is with a surprise party or event. The more harmless the better. Try to make it something that is irresistible and won’t result in a ‘walk out’ if they’re less than thrilled about the overture. Most people, even a jilted lost love, will at least give you the chance to follow through with it. Having others present – especially past friends of the relationship – makes it tougher for your ex to walk out. If you try this and genuinely attempt to make it real and enjoyable you will often find yourself on the smiling side of a rekindled relationship and a real chance to have your ex back.